girl at large

I like to write about life when you have a job, some kids, a fixer upper and a fatal disease.

Category: excursions

  • Earlier this week a colleague said they would soon be turning forty. I said congratulations, oh your forties are going to be great! He shook his head and raised his eyebrows, incredulous…what?  I always knew I’d enjoy being any age but 20. I recall my thirties being the decade of anger, but a good motivating…

  •   We have the Adirondack chairs, we have the greenery…can we hang on to the peaceful feeling? Our trip to Kentucky’s Shaker Village was four satisfying days of gorgeous scenery, fresh air, birdsong and heavenly biscuits. How can just one day back to treatment (daily radiation) and work frazzle me so quickly?! Deep breaths I…

  • The monochromatic outfits we all loved have to be inspired by The Crown, don’t make fun of the Queen ever again. Men need better dress up clothes. Get some interesting coats dudes. Bernie is in front of me at the post office every time. Every event needs a mascot. I didn’t know it was Gaga because…

  • I went out beyond my house yesterday for the first time in many weeks. My exciting adventures out into the world have never before had such a modest destination. How did it feel? What thrilling things did I experience? First, I have forgotten how to drive. And Brown Deer Road is still uuuuuuugly. When the…

  •  (photo cred Vivi) Me: “You said ‘Aldi’s’ little while ago, now there’s an Aldi ad in my feed. I’ve never had an Aldi ad before.” Mom: “So what?” Me: “It’s listening, I swear the devices are listening” Mom: “What? Ooh, that’s spooky….” Also Mom: holds up iPad, “SEX!”

  • At the beach this evening, resting my sore feet in the cool sand, I could see this scene to my right and to my left. Families, friends, kids, grandparents, daters and skaters and aunties and babies. On the walk down the bluff, I heard three languages. I spotted interracial couples and families, more than one…

  • “Nice Hawaiian shirt Mom” “Thanks, I wore it so if we’re on the news, you know, I can stand out and spot myself”. Um, kinda not the point of being here at this march for immigrant families Mom, but ok. I thought that was the end of the topic when Paulie, beloved but daring son-in-law,…

  • Paulie and Viv are at the races all day, I already have two loads of laundry done and the sun is shining. Time to go to the farmers market, just Charlie and me. Or, because he has a boppie and is totally ignorable four feet ahead of me in the double stroller, mentally just me.…

  • Time in the car with my girls, Mom and Viv, is my favorite. I certainly miss the days of road tripping alone, the window rolled down, sun on the windshield, rolling through the green summer countryside blasting NPR. But I have embraced my passengers. I always learn something. Driving back from Patsy and Charlie's lovely…

  • Settling in to our room: "The hotel TV might not cooperate, and your iPad is fragile, so I'll watch cartoons on your phone." Cooperate.   Posted with Blogsy